When things go wrong
Everyone makes mistakes sometimes; it’s a natural part of being human.
No matter what you see on Instagram, Facebook, or LinkedIn, most of those perfect-looking lives and careers are carefully curated. We all have ‘off days’ where things don’t go to plan, and that’s okay.
Knowing this can be comforting, and that you’re not alone. In fact, being honest about challenges can bring you closer to your colleagues. Most people like to help; it gives them a sense of purpose. So, when you occasionally ask for support, you’re giving someone the chance to step in and share their experience or advice. Chances are, they’ve faced something similar before or when they were new to their role.
Working through problems together builds teamwork and mutual respect. Just be sure to return the favour when someone else needs a hand in the future.
Why an occasional career catastrophe might actually be a good thing
Mistakes provide learning opportunities
In the moment that you realise something has gone wrong, you open up an opportunity for reflection. Ask yourself:
- What do you know now that you didn’t know before?
- If, and how, the situation could be salvaged or improved?
- What you could do differently in the future?
Try to give yourself a bit of time and space to think these things through; your ‘hot’ instant reaction is likely to be more emotional and harsh than a more considered ‘cool’ reflection a few days later.
And there you have it, valuable wisdom generated and banked for the future!
Challenging circumstances can help you to build resilience
When things go wrong you have an opportunity to develop, and demonstrate, the ability to bounce back. So, hooray for that mistake you just made, now you can focus on dealing with a difficult situation and prove your ability to cope in adverse conditions.
Remember, people (like your manager) can often excuse an occasional error, they’re more interested in whether or not you’re able to come through things professionally.
So, if things should go wrong, try to channel the ‘keep calm and carry on’ mantra and aim to move forward with a positive mindset, made even stronger by testing times.
Failure can be good for your workplace relationships
Everyone messes up at some point. It proves that you’re human, and therefore ‘normal’ (in a good way).
Regardless of what Instagram, Facebook, and LinkedIn tells you about everyone else’s perfect life and career, remember that this is often highly polished and in the real world we all have days when our performance could be described as suboptimal at best.
This reality can bring you closer to your colleagues. Generally speaking, people like to help, it makes us feel good. So, presenting an occasional problem (as long as it is only very occasional) provides a colleague with an opportunity to don their superhero cape and swoop in with solutions!
The chances are that they will have experienced something similar and will have helpful advice to offer. Plus, working something through together will help to build a sense of teamwork and shared enterprise.
Just remember to return the favour whenever you can.