This brings us to the idea that funerary monuments for male slaves and freedmen, that were paid for by their former masters, act as evidence for their same-sex relations.
One of the most prominent examples of this is the tombstone of 20-year-old freedman, Victor, commissioned by Numerianus, a trooper in the first cavalry regiment of Asturians, stationed at South Shields on Hadrian’s Wall.
It was evidently hugely expensive, made from a finer sandstone than is typical of the locally available stone, and the mason was able to include much fine detail.
The carving itself, with naturalistic frills on the pillow and creases in the mattress, suggests exceptional and, in turn, expensive artisanship.
As Ivleva comments, whereas the other tombstones were made to commemorate the wives and female partners of soldiers, Victor’s is the exception, it was erected for a former 20-year-old male former slave by his master.
Furthermore, the wording on the inscription that Numerianus ‘most devotedly conducted him [Victor] to the tomb’ and Victor’s liberation at a young age of 20 suggest a relationship that had clearly advanced beyond that of a master and slave (Ivleva, 2020, p. 254).
Legionary centurions paid for the funerary monuments of their freedmen and male slaves, due to their higher salary. As a mere trooper in an auxiliary unit, Numerianus is an exception, which is further indicative of a strong bond between him and Victor.
Overall, while it cannot be said with certainty that Victor and Numerianus has same-sex relations, it is heavily implied, and thus I believe is evidence of queerness in Roman Britain.
In the modern day, more and more LGBTQ+ stories are coming to light, and I hope this research piece brings awareness to the fact that queerness has always been present, even in ancient times.
This museum placement has encouraged me to think about the ordinary people whose stories remain untold, and I am thrilled to be a part of this project that helps bring some of these accounts to light.